and so it starts.

so approximately 3 months ago i decided to rejoin the dating world. i picked the online realm (for the third time) for a few reasons, but mostly it's easier to cyberstalk; with the ridiculous amounts of social media outlets coupled with public records online, it's too fantastic to pass up. so between then and now, i have had 13 first dates. 13 FIRST DATES. only one of the 13 (#9, but we'll get to him later) turned into a second date. i honestly don't remember all of them and wish i had started this sooner, but the most memorable of the 13 are below...

#1
after spending 4 hours together, when the bill came he asked, "How do you want to do this? I'll leave it up to you."

#3
good first date (coffee), stood me up for date #2.

#7
great indian food, total gent, used to date a friend of mine and he just cd not move past that.

#9
only time it turned into a second date. second date was great: sushi dinner, blues band at double door after. i realized throughout the course of the date that i wasn't physically attracted to him since he slightly resembled on of my best friends' ex-fiancee...so he kissed me at the end of the night and grabbed my ass. after nervously laughing at him, he asked why i laughed i replied, "bc i made me laugh," and he countered, "oh, bc i grabbed yr ass?" and then proceeded to grab both cheeks with both hands. needless to say i did not hear from him again, so glad he got the hint.

#14
great night at a french bakery, when i get home he texts me and asks me if i have a problem with the fact that he has a lingerie fetish.

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something interesting to note is i have a sexy Vivi pic on my profile. finally one of my friends asked me if i thought i invited a certain type of man based on that pic. i think she makes a good point. so i changed my pic.

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so i've decided to start this blog and chronicle my crazy dating antics in the hopes that...well i don't know. maybe entertain you, and maybe so i can remember this craziness.